{"id":1823,"date":"2017-10-08T23:35:10","date_gmt":"2017-10-08T23:35:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lfgdating.com\/gamer-dating-blog\/?p=1823"},"modified":"2017-10-08T23:35:10","modified_gmt":"2017-10-08T23:35:10","slug":"try-not-expectations-first-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lfgdating.com\/gamer-dating-blog\/try-not-expectations-first-date","title":{"rendered":"Try Not to Have Expectations on a First Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Expectations on a first date need to be monitored closely. If someone goes on a first date expecting the world from the other person, that date is probably not going to go well. Likewise, if someone expects the date to be terrible, odds are that person&#8217;s thoughts and attitude may be negatively affecting the date. See how neither mindset works?<\/p>\n<p>The key? Try not to have expectations on a first date. Why? Because it&#8217;s a first date. 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