Tag: LFGdating
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How to Start Dating Again: A 14-Day Re-Entry Plan for Gamers
Fourteen days, five gated stages: the save-file audit, the respec, honest character creation, first contact and the tutorial date. Every stage has a quit signal, because quitting a stage is data, not failure.
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Version 4 Was Our New Game+
We rebuilt the LFGdating app from the ground up this year with thirteen years of scars intact. Casey on why starting over is not starting from zero, and what that means if you’re dating again.
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Rebound vs. Ready: 7 Signs of Which One You’re Actually In
Every ‘signs of a rebound’ list is vibes. These seven were actually measured: revenge motive, the comparison reflex, contact, surveillance, acceptance, self-concept clarity and fear of being single. Score yourself.
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How Long Should You Wait to Date After a Breakup? What the Research Actually Says
Half the relationship? Three months? Researchers measured the gap between relationships three different ways and found no waiting period. Here’s what predicted recovery instead, and a three-question readiness check.
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Dating After a Breakup: The Gamer’s Complete 2026 Guide
How long should you wait to date after a breakup? Nobody who studied it found a number. Here’s what the research says actually predicts recovery, what you keep from the last run, and how to start your New Game+.
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This Week on LFGdating: Player Two, Actually
Six posts on what the research actually says about gaming and relationships, the number everybody argues about that predicts nothing, and the one free change that does more than any of it.
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Gaming and Relationships by the Numbers: What the Research Actually Shows
Every gaming-and-relationships figure that survives a source chase, hyperlinked at the point of mention, plus the three numbers we refused to print and an honest list of where the evidence runs out.
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How to Talk About Your Gaming Time Without It Turning Into a Fight
A two-question audit to run first, six sentences that work with the reasoning under each, three to retire immediately, and the one rule that outperforms every hour-counting negotiation you have ever had.
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The Hobby I Used to Apologize For
For about ten years Casey had a sentence rehearsed for admitting he played video games. Here is what pre-apologizing for your own hobby costs you, and the thing the research changed his mind about.
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Video Games and Relationships: The Complete 2026 Guide
Do video games ruin relationships? Across 349 couples, hours played predicted nothing at all. Here is what four studies actually found, what they can’t tell you, and the one variable that mattered.